Some “rules” tends to cross over to gray areas and things start to seem unclear. Once you’ve broken up with someone, should you stick to your decision and accept ‘its over!” ? Is it healthy to remain friends with an ex?These questions occurred to me because many of my friends [myself included] have broken the rule, countless times. You know the drill, immediately after you break up you feel liberated. Then soon after you hear “our song”, or catch a hint of their perfume and suddenly you think you need them in your life again. You debate about it for a couple of days, then you finally give in and send a text saying ‘wassup” or “how are you”. Sooner then later your calling and things seems to be back how they were. Yet, YOUR NOT BACK TOGETHER!!! So when your hanging out [as friends], and a guy/girl calls their phone you get upset and emotional. You suddenly realize things are not the same, you are no longer together and they are no longer committed to you.
so…. SHOULD YOU STICK TO THE ITS OVER RULE? From experience i say YES YOU SHOULD! Sometimes things will remind you of good times share with an ex. However you must remember, that person is a ex for a reason. So my best advice is REMEMBER THE REASON…& MOVE ON.--GIZ
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